Wedding Guest Etiquette: Can You Wear Black?

Wedding Guest Etiquette: Can You Wear Black?

Once deemed a fashion faux pas, wearing black to a wedding was strictly off-limits during the Victorian Era, its sombre tone reserved exclusively for mourning.

But fashion, much like tradition, evolves. Today, we embrace more progressive attitudes that embrace and celebrate self-expression when dressing for special occasions - provided you follow the given dress code. 

Now, can you wear black to a wedding? Short answer: yes. 

Black is often considered a timeless choice for occasionwear; it’s flattering and sophisticated when appropriately styled. Depending on the location, dress code and, of course, the bride’s wishes, you can wear black to a wedding while remaining polished and elegant.

Whether you’re heading to an al fresco summer celebration, a black-tie affair, or a city soirée, here’s how to wear black to a wedding.

Outdoor weddings

With summer steadily approaching, the question of whether you can wear black to a summer wedding is a common one. When we think of sun-drenched outdoor celebrations or garden-themed nuptials, we usually default to soft pastels and romantic florals. But that doesn’t mean black is out of place. With the right materials and silhouette, you can wear a black dress to a summer wedding.

That being said, black does trap heat more easily than other colours, so if it’s set to be a sunny day, dress accordingly. Opt for breathable fabrics, shorter lengths, and strapless necklines to keep cool. If the ceremony calls for more modesty, have a light shawl or blazer to easily throw on when needed.

A considered, summery option for such an occasion is the MIRANDA Black Dress, with its romantic black lace fabrication and three-tiered maxi skirt. Or, go for the PHOEBE Black Top, featuring a flared silhouette and 3D floral embroidered chiffon, paired with the sculpting CAROLINA Black Maxi Skirt.


Black-tie affairs

If you’ve been invited to a black-tie wedding this season, wearing black isn’t just accepted - it’s expected. The right black ensemble can exude effortless elegance and timeless grace. It’s all about sleek refinement, structured tailoring, and just the right amount of drama. 

The CORA Black Off-the-Shoulder Dress is a classic choice. This off-the-shoulder, long-sleeved gown with its thigh-high split combines elegance with a hint of allure. If you’re looking to switch it up in the evening with a playful reception look, the HARPER Black Dress is a contemporary take on the classic LBD. Featuring a structured pleated skirt and off-the-shoulder cut, it’s the ultimate after-party piece.

Ditch the dresses

Not a dress person? A tailored black jumpsuit or a women’s suit can be just as impactful and formal. 

The VIVIANNE Black Jumpsuit is a refined tuxedo-inspired piece, crafted with luxurious velvet material, a structured lapel, corseted bodice that flatters from every angle, and our signature fit and flare trouser. If you prefer to mix and match, go all in with a tailored three-piece: our DAVINA Black Blazer, with its matching black trousers and black corset top. Featuring jewel-embellished detailing and sharp tailoring, this ensemble is polished enough to rival the groomsmen. You can also find your forever piece in our collection of tailored trousers and pair them with the FAYE Black Top, and its dramatic floor-length drape. 

Styling tips for wearing black to a wedding

Wearing black to a wedding is all about the finer details; play with contrast, thoughtful styling, and add personality to your look with accessories. 

To keep things light, pair your outfit with gold or silver accessories, colourful shoes, or a bold clutch to break up the monochrome.

In summer, opt for breathable fabrics and minimal layers. For evening or indoor weddings, a bold lip or sleek hair. If your outfit is minimal, let your jewellery do the talking; think statement earrings, pearls, a sculptural cuff, or a vintage clutch.

The golden rule? Read the room - and the dress code on the invite. As long as you match the vibe and respect the couple’s wishes, your confidence will do the rest.

MERABI’s edit of black occasionwear

If you’re still wondering whether you can wear black to a summer wedding this season, NADINE MERABI’s curated line of black occasionwear proves you absolutely can. From beaded gowns and sequin minis to tailored jumpsuits and corseted separates, discover black garments that bring drama, romance, and elegance to any wedding invite. Find forever pieces you’ll reach for again and again, even after the nuptial celebrations.

Black attire can be anything you want it to be: fun, classy, sultry. With the right look, it’s no longer a question of ‘can you wear black to a wedding?’, but how will you?

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